We took a bit of an inventory of our People Room during our Friday Lunchtime Live.

I'm not sure about everyone else, but I realized just how many areas in my room I was creating walls and opening myself up to all kinds of problems and dramas.

How was I doing that exactly? With the quality of my thoughts.

Think negative, low quality thoughts about those people or situations in your People Room and you allow in some pretty low quality behaviors from yourself and others.

In our session, we learned how to clean this up and how by sending out higher quality thoughts, loving thoughts, thoughts of blessings towards others, that love would set an automatic boundary and only allow in high quality behaviors and treatment from others.

We also learned that before we get all the walls down and change the vibe of the people room, it may be necessary for us to distance ourselves from some people and their not so pleasant behaviors that are hanging out in our space. Then we let love decide if they get to stay or if they will need to move along..

Join me for a pre recorded Friday Lunchtime Session this Friday.. Christmas Day!! We will be making sure our God Room is feeling more and more like a place of peace, safety, relief, and comfort.
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Sending your mind some love,
Angie
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I didn't realize until our last live session this past Friday, just how many walls I have had up over my lifetime. After I realized how and why we build those walls, I was able to see it clearly. Once you can see and understand what "walls" you off from connection and feeling and giving love to others, you can then start to tear those walls down once and for all. This allows love to flow both from you and to you.

In our session, I discussed 4 ingredients or bricks that can build those walls of distance and separation.
(our focus in this session is the resentment brick)
Our bricks consist of:

1. Fear: you might do something to me that will hurt me emotionally, mentally, or physically. I don't trust you not to hurt me. I don't feel safe with you. You might be critical, judge, disapprove, reject, or abandon me. Other people in my past hurt me, so you probably will too.
2. Shame: low self worth or self hatred- because of what I did to you in the past, or because of the kind of person that I am, I don't deserve anything, much less your love. I am not worthy of love. I haven't been good enough to earn any love.
3. Resentments/Hate: I am still so angry or really bothered by something that you did, so I am not letting you in. I have not forgiven you. I am not finished hating you. The argument is still not finished or resolved in my mind. I didn't get the resolution that I wanted or needed.
4. Personal Differences: I don't agree with what you did or what you think or what you believe, therefore we can't be close. I think you have to agree with me and hold the same fundamental beliefs as me before I can or will share love with you.

As I mention in the video, there may be more bricks but these are the ones that I have identified for now and I feel it covers most areas of things that create separation in relationships.

In our session, I give you the 3 step process for beginning to bring these walls down and yes, you guessed it, it all starts with self love. Being able to reconnect with your own inner child and love it completely is the core of this work.