Did you know that when you hold positive thoughts or "good" judgements about others, you create a healing energy field for that person?
Your belief and focus about the person creates a space where they can be the best version of themselves.
When you focus on their negative aspects, you are saying you believe in their dysfunction. You are now out of alignment or agreement with source about the person and will create drama and karma. Positive thought holds you in alignment and agreement with God, preventing the engagement in drama and the creation of more karma, or life lessons.
You do this naturally when you are "in love" with someone.
All you can see and focus on is how awesome they are and how awesome you feel when with them. All they believe is that you are amazing and all you believe is they are amazing. Both of you hold each other in an amazing positive energy field where you both act out the highest version of yourself.
And then..... the mind begins to poison the field by shifting your focus to one "bad" judgement or problem. The integrity of the field you hold them in starts to shift and now the "in love" feeling starts to fade. Now instead of being in a love relationship, you have entered a karmic relationship where you will both play the role each energy field commands, and sometimes that role is quiet painful.
Negative focus will poison your relationships and cause them to take on a different purpose. To teach you not to poison. To teach you to hold the purest field concerning one another. To bring out the best in each other. To bring out the best in you.
Keep the field clear for everyone to enter and show you the "God" within them. Believe in their dysfunction and they will show you what you believe is true. Heal yourself and your relationships by keeping you thought fields clear and full of love, not poison.
Angie Johnsey is a speaker, author and world-renowned Mind expert. A hypnotherapist and psychiatric nurse by trade, Angie assists clients all over the world to become aware of their mental and emotional patterns, bring clarity and peace to lives that were once full of stress and suffering, and choose the feelings they would like to have to transform their lives.